DATING TIPS
DATING TIPS FOR GUYS
| • | If you are a guy…just know that you…well… Don’t give importance to the charismatic…enigmatic. Figure sitting right in front of you! Ya…m not nuts…the whole psychology of women, to reveal works totally opposite on what you think it should. |
| • | Donot just speak because you need to somehow proceed the conversation… |
| • | Try to make them jealous…Compliment the other ladies you are simultaneously eye upon, openly. But beware; don’t let the business get nasty… |
| • | Try to be different than other cartoons she has dated till now. Be self-possessed. Don’t let her know why you need her, but let her ask herself as to why she needs you! This will always work on the longer run. |
| • | The guy…though it matters on the first encounter…but to be really true, it’s the warmth you shower, its how much happy you make her feel, that makes a lasting impression. |
| • | Donot be demanding from her. She will feel like a caged bird and the matter you turn your eye, she will fly around! |
| • | Be masculine…donot make pronunciation errors. Have a decent dressing style…and a heart-reaching smile. She is 24*7 scrutinising you. |
| • | Be on the same wavelenth, rather than trying to impress her with your stupid attempts. Donot boast! She will figure it out in minutes… |
| • | Be open! Be what you really are! And no matter how bizarre your whole approach is, if it is done with the touch of confidence, any woman will go nuts for you, respecting you for the fact of being independent. |
| • | Donot be into chasing a lot of women, as it would make you so much into rumours. Though some women find being associated with the most happening guy in the town as awesome, many donont trust the same mortal. |
| • | Most women are just gold diggers…they will use you to the point of no return, without you getting to even acknowledge it. So donot try flattering them with gifts and presents. |
| • | Donot start over with humorous sex jokes and bumping into her. There will be plenty of uncomfortable pauses to come in between. |
| • | Ask questions about her, her family background, about her past, about her present…considering the limits. Donot order her things out and donot debate on what she did that she shouldn’t have. It may sound as being a slave…but then, its also part of etiquettes. |
| • | When you date, complimants you…thank her for it…rather then being an introvert and revealing something unnecessary in between. |
| • | Use stupid and childish initial conversations…like tarot card reading, graphology, palmistry, etc etc…keep it light. Try to engage her in your gimmick…make her smile! If she does that! It’s well begun!! |
| • | Donot hesitate at all. Donot use the “clichés” in approaching her. You also need to know how to actually converse with gals, so that you donot make her feel out of place. Donot be boring!!! |
| • | Finally…for a girl, what matters is that the innocent in your eyes, the warmth in your smile, the aura all around you, the trust you can ask without saying, the dreams that you can make her see with open eyes. It’s all the amalgam of love and friendship and trust that makes a tasty recipe. |
DATING TIPS FOR GIRLS
Theres so much talk about the feminist side. Now lets trigger to the opposite sex!
Well, to start with, with the very mention of a guy, comes the image of inpedendent, authorative, decisive, strong and masculine figure.
But there’s so much going on and on the other side too
| • | Women, need to be confident in making the first moves because initially it takes time for guys to open up with their female counterparts. One has to make the situation comfortable and cozy, so that there’s much more of understanding. As I said…foundations need to be strong!!! |
| • | Men like attention. So here is the key, give them what they crave for. And do it with style. Donot go rushing all over to them…let them respond too. Stop thinking foolish questions like “he loves me, he loves me not.” From the very beginning. Let him know you! Let him get interested in you. Be clear to him as to with what perspective do you look at him. Give him the signals so that he doesn’t get confused between love and friendship. |
| • | Give them space and time. Donot be over demanding from them to be clean, punctual and caring. Learn to understand that even they have busy schedules and for a change, they do have loads of tension. Donot grow desperate for them if they donot give a damn.keep your self-respect intact. |
| • | Donot ask him to invest a lot on you, though he would show that he doesn’t mind it. Be in your own limits. Always have extra cash in your purse, especially on the first date. |
| • | Be yourself.theres no need to change according to him, or get moulded from the very beginning. Give time to your relation. For example, if you have his number, do give him a call, once in a while. And please donot give your wrong number to him. Maintain the essence of truth involved in the interaction. |
| • | Donot crib about things and rather be happy and make him laugh too.theres nothing like laughter than connects people, no matter how large the distance. Be a positive person rather than being a total doomed person. |
| • | Compliment him for small things. Make him know that it mattered to you. Most of the times, it’s the small things that make the memory rather than bigger and lavish tries to do so. |
| • | When you are with him, be with him.Donot wander your topic of conversations. Do extra eye movement. Donot try to make him jealous.Men,actually donot get so-so easily. but they do get, when you did not even notice about it. And then, if you do so, be ready to face the wrath of it. Men have been known for getting jealous to outlandish extents. So such an approach can be literally egregious.! |
| • | Be noticeable. Be different. So that the guy can boast about you, your small things to his friends. Guys really go for the status things in their own peer. |
| • | If you are not interested in guy,donot carry him off as a burden, abusing him behind his ass. Be polite to him and go for amicable separation so that maximum of the hurt can be avoided. This can at least maintain, if not friendship then just a touch of professional relationship. |
| • | Guys love talking about themselves. They know what they are good at and will always like to strike a chord in that direction. Do make it a point that you show how very interested you are in them, rather than just being infront in person. Honour them an above all, never ever damage the male ego. Learn how to compromise… |
| • | Keep your dates out in public places, so that neither of you two get tempted to take advantage of each other, in the very initial levels.Donot be out till late. |
| • | Be clean and hygienic.Donot do unnecessary extra makeup to ornament yourself. He will definitely go for your looks,appearnce and figure. So just be yourself. simple!! |
| • | Shut up very strictly at one point.Donot discuss in detail about your past relationships. Especially how far you went with your ex. Respect his and your own privacy. |
| • | Be well qualified and have an intellectual approach towards life.Moreover,you should be in job…independent lady gets respect |
| • | Be understanding. Respect his family members. |
| • | Your age matters to an extent that it decides the compatibility level.Otherwise,it’s not a grinding axe. |
| • | And finally…donot ever lie to him. No matter how small the topic is, ranging from you hating pizzas, which he adores,…or anything, which seems insignificant to you…may cause the rift. A stitch in time save s nine!! |
Finally…the best saviour is to wait for the right person to knock on your door, rather than to let everyone in. Donot compromise or setlte,no matter how wealthy the guy is or how beautiful the girl seems.
Theres much more than face and place value that has to be dealt with, when it comes to being in a relationship.Donot fool yourself around. Be yourself. and be careful
Donot change yourself and retain your integrity, no matter how much looked down …you are.